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Old January 3rd, 2006, 03:22 AM
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Dear Cha,

Thanks for your question. The question will most likely be repeated by other members due to the apparent vagueness of the content.

If better phrasing will come to your mind, please share it with me for the benefit of the entire community.

Now back to the building blocks; Each type of relationship requires a different combination of building blocks. You will definitely want intimacy in your relationships with your spouse, but rarely will you care about having synergic business relations with him/her.

On the other hand, good business partners must have high synergy in their relations and intimacy is, in most cases redundant.

Hence, not having the capacity for intimacy is neither good or bad. But not having it in a relationship that requires intimacy as one of its building blocks can make it less successful.

Just let's remember that we have been deposited with the greatest gift of all: free choice. We can strive for success (and achieve it) in any aspect of our lives. It's made so much easier, though, if you, your partner, and your relationship are rich with the right cosmic energies.

I'm using intimacy just as an example, but let's continue with it, assuming that you're inquiring about a long-term personal relationship with Someone. Now, the Role Playing table at the bottom of the report shows that a long-term personal relationship (such as marriage) requires capacity for intimacy from both you, Someone and the combined relationship.

Let's assume that Someone doesn't possess enough of this energy. This flag denotes that either Someone is not the best candidate for this type of relationship with you, or that you should adjust your expectations about this quality in your relationship, or that Someone may like to focus on developing an ability to master intimacy at large and with you specifically.

Did I answer your question? May I post your question in the upcoming forum? Please do not hesitate to contact me for further questions or information.
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