Oh yes...I almost forgot.

It is VERY interesting that your wife's demeanor toward you has since changed for the better after a great date night followed by VISITING GREAT FRIENDS.

This is huge.

The likelihood is that she got a glimpse of you being your natural self and being at your BEST when around people who you don't have to save a marriage with and/or go the extra mile to impress. I admittedly don't know much about your situation other than what you've written about it, but MANY, MANY guys are well-loved by friends (including even FEMALE friends) but somehow "clam up" or otherwise morph into the "nice guy" when dealing with a woman they want to impress and/or earn the affection of.

The irony is that the guy you naturally are around those friends is... (are you sitting down for this?) ...the man she fell in love with.

I sincerely hope that is useful to you. If so, it would explain SO MUCH of what's going on.

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Regards,
Scot McKay
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