I just showed this post to Emily, and she independently came up with a point that I was already mulling over.

Consider very carefully whether your wife has another man on the side. Emily stated, and I concur, that NO WOMAN responds positively to her husband's forward thinking efforts and then regresses into confusion a relatively short time later.

There's clearly another option out there that is causing a civil war in her mind. She, like you, is a grown-up. Instead of granting her the excuses, talk to her in a calm but direct manner about whether she really wants to be with you.

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Scot McKay
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