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Originally Posted by marina
...I still need to know what "average or below" means. I found that several times and want to know if it is good or bad.
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There is nothing wrong with "average or below" score in any category. For example, such score in the commitment department doesn't mean that there's no commitment in this relationship. It means, however, that if there is - it's the end product of choice and resolve, hard work, cultural and educational training, etc.
We like to use swimming as an example. You can swim against the currents; only it is so much harder, requires ongoing training and practice, and quite often depletes your resolve and stamina after a short while.
An above average score usually means that committing to the relationship is a natural state with that person or couple. You may usually find this valuable possession among people that are balanced and harmonized, recognize their self-worth and are not judgmental towards themselves or others. In short - they are committed inwardly (love themselves), and thus can be naturally committed to others.
Make sense?