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 August 5th, 2008 12:36 PM |
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Is your confidence level where you'd like it to be? Many relationship issues arise from a lack of confidence or low self-esteem. Low self-confidence can contribute to withdrawal, lack of intimacy and even infidelity in a relationship. So, how can you increase your confidence? Well, self-confidence is not a commodity that can be plucked from a tree or pulled from a shelf. You see, having merit for ones self is all about self-love and that comes from within. S... [Read More] |
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March 30th, 2008 08:34 AM |
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When we are little we play with toys.Most of life is playing with toys. It's fun, enchanting, passes the time and distracts us from one of our greatest fears - boredom, nothing doing - being no one. When nothing is happening and we're bored we feel empty and dull. When there aren't distractions and entertainment, some don't even know if they're really alive. Many use their time and life s... [Read More] |
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December 2nd, 2008 09:36 AM |
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Loneliness is one of the great problems of our times. Despite being constantly on- line, tuned into virtual reality, the heart needs human contact and warmth. We all have a deep hunger to belong to community or family. Yet, before we can truly feel real connection to others, it is extremely valuable to understand the difference between loneliness and being alone.
When we come together out of fear of being alone, this togetherness is not really satisfying, but often a way to hide from the disc... [Read More] |
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October 29th, 2008 12:42 AM |
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When rough times come, each of us has an intuition of the best way to handle the stress we feel. Rather than listen to all the catastrophic predictions, we stop and first turn within for wisdom and guidance. Implicitly we are asking, is there a way of seeing things differently? And, of course, there always is.
Rather than respond automatically, we are stopping for a moment and discovering a way of looking at the world through fresh eyes. As we do this, not only do we calm down, but often disc... [Read More] |
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September 10th, 2008 01:51 PM |
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September 8th, 2008 06:54 AM |
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Today it seems more difficult than ever to build a lasting relationship and find the fulfillment all desire. In many circles, traditional relationships are a thing of the past and commitment is not automatically a part of anything. Along with this, we see increasing loneliness and divorce. For many, it has become hard to find a suitable partner and create a lasting foundation.
Although love and relationships are approached differently in Jewish and Zen practice, the teachings interact in many... [Read More] |
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September 3rd, 2008 09:35 AM |
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You wake up one day and your relationship is shattered. Most of the passion that existed between the two of you is gone, and your mate says “I’m not in love with you anymore," or "I don't feel the same way about you.” Maybe you’ve recently separated, are in the mists of a divorce, or are in a relationship crisis. Even though it seems that the crisis appears suddenly, in many cases it does not. A relationship crisis usually builds slowly over time with one person caught completel... [Read More]
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June 3rd, 2008 08:22 AM |
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We all seek ways of becoming balanced and at peace. Unfortunately, most of the time the ease we discover is temporary. As soon as a new situation, or unwanted encounter arises, we are often thrown back into our familiar mode of upset and concern.
Authentic peace of mind, however, is unshakable. No matter what changes appear in our world, we are able to welcome them. Authentic peace of mind is not based upon a series of ideas or beliefs, but is the very heart of who we truly are. When we... [Read More] |
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September 1st, 2007 02:02 AM |
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Many individuals spend a great deal of time in relationships wondering if the person is the right one for them, whether they should stay or go. This question can become so persistent that it becomes hard enjoying being together, interferes with being able to relax and allow the bond to grow.
There are a number of different factors that cause individuals to doubt their relationships. Some say that although they love the person they do not know if they are loved back; others don't know if they'... [Read More] |
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April 1st, 2007 02:39 AM |
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Most of us live our lives hungry - hungry for love, attention, praise, success. But no matter how much we take in, it’s hard to be satisfied. The pleasure lasts for a little while and then before long we’re craving more. It is easy to spend each day waiting for tomorrow when we will get what we dream of, arrive at our goal, find a new job, have good weather, or finally, magically, meet the love of our life. Then things will be better. Right?
Wrong. When tomorrow comes it’s another day, just lik... [Read More] |
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August 19th, 2010 01:53 PM |
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He loves me, he loves me not is a game of French origin, in which one person seeks to determine whether they are the object of another’s affection by plucking the petals from a daisy. Ironically, it’s not uncommon for women in relationship crises to feel as if they are deeply entrenched in this game of confusion and uncertainty! This is especially true in relationships that are plagued by emotional and/or physical infidelity. When a partner strays from a relationship, one might assume that they... [Read More]
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August 7th, 2010 03:56 PM |
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I’m looking down every alley. I’m makin’ those desperate calls. I’m staying up all night hoping, hittin’ my head against the wall! Because your love, your love, your love is my drug! And, so goes the recent, popular song by the artist Kesha!
The other day, when I was listening to the lyrics of Kesha’s song, I suddenly realized how closely her message paralleled a common relationship issue. So, I felt compelled to write an article on the subject. Obviously, the lyrics denote someone that is... [Read More] |
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July 12th, 2010 09:41 AM |
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Fear - we all experience it, yet few understand it. Most folks view fear as a nasty and vile emotional state that breeds anxiety, panic and, in extreme cases, mayhem in the deepest, darkest corners of the mind. And while I agree with that analogy, I’m going to show you a side of fear that is often overlooked and greatly misunderstood.Without question, there is a duality to everything that exists in the universe. For example, light can’t shine without dark, good can’t flourish without evil an... [Read More] |
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July 5th, 2010 12:38 PM |
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I think it would be fare to say that everyone has attempted to make a few changes in their life at one point or another. And, I’m willing to bet that you have as well. Perhaps you’ve tried to increase your self-esteem, eliminate your fears, achieve financial freedom or attract love? In response to those common aspirations, many folks have turned to positive affirmations as a solution. However, I must confess, there has been a plethora of inaccurate and disingenuous information published... [Read More]
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April 28th, 2010 03:36 PM |
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Without question, money problems are at the root of a substantial number of marital crises. In fact, according to most sources this issue ranks within the top 4 reasons for divorce – sharing the stage with the likes of infidelity, communication and emotional abuse. And typically, the mainstream approach to overcoming this dilemma has been to manage it on the surface with the following advice:
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March 27th, 2010 01:25 PM |
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Love is like a magnet; the more you try to capture, take or grab it, the more you push it away and/or it eludes you. Learn the secrets to becoming a love magnet! The Law of Cause and Effect also known as the law of Karma states that every thought, every belief and every action has an equal reaction or effect. Karma is the result of our own past actions and our own present doings. Hence, we are the result of what we were and will be the result of what we a... [Read More] |
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January 23rd, 2010 01:49 PM |
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All you need is love, love, love is all you need! And, so goes a verse from the popular Beatles song which was released in 1967. While most critics and journalist in the music industry interpreted John Lennon’s message as love is everything, most of the general public seemed to view it as the sole component to a great marriage. In my opinion, it’s neither! If you take a moment to examine the following verses that were written by Lennon, you’ll soon discover that his message is directed at self-l... [Read More]
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December 26th, 2009 04:26 PM |
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Most women go through their entire lives never learning how to get what they truly want from a relationship. And, many end up losing their relationship simply because they didn't know what to do or say to save it. This is an absolute mistake! Why? Because if you don't gain the knowledge and the wisdom to create a magical relationship, what makes you think it's going to be different the next time around? Chances are it probably won't!
You see, the basis for a magical rela... [Read More] |
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November 24th, 2009 07:56 PM |
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How to instantaneously shift the momentum in your relationship crisis, stop the break up and reconnect with your partner using two secret principles! So, has your partner blindsided you recently with one of these emotional nuclear bombs? "I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore!" "I’m having an affair, but I still love you, and I don’t want a divorce!" ... [Read More] |
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November 12th, 2009 08:58 PM |
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Have you been trying to get your partner to make a commitment? Have you run into a brick wall over and over again? Whether your goal is marriage, a long term relationship, or winning your partner back after separation, there is a common thread at the core of this dilemma! And, your success is entirely dependent upon gaining a complete understanding of that denominator. First, let me say, that a partner’s unwillingness to commit usually has absolutely nothing to do with ... [Read More] |
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October 31st, 2009 11:02 PM |
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Are you in the mists of a difficult and painful marriage crisis? Are you frustrated and heartbroken over your partner's rejection? Has your partner dropped this emotional nuclear bomb on you; "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore?" Or, worse; I’m having an affair? Have you asked your partner to attend counseling only to be rebuked? Are fraught with anxiety and completely panic stricken because you don’t know what to say or do to win your partner back? <... [Read More]
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September 24th, 2009 01:02 PM |
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Chances are if you’re reading this article, there’s a high probability that you’ve endured infidelity in a relationship. Maybe your current partner recently dropped the nuclear infidelity bomb on you, or maybe you’ve experienced several relationships rife with unfaithful behavior? Whether it’s the former or the later, the real questions are why does it happen and how can you fix it? Now, I’m sure you’ve found a wealth of information on the web about cheating husb... [Read More] |
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August 21st, 2009 11:37 AM |
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Did you know that there are 3 common and very misleading myths about how to save a relationship?Did you know that these myths are the very principles used in over 90% of all relationship books and counseling programs? And finally, did you know that these myths often make matters much worse and even destroy most relationships!
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June 19th, 2009 10:31 AM |
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There are literally hundreds of articles circulating the web that claim to provide the illustrious pearl of wisdom that will get an ex back! But after critiquing the vast majority of them, I concluded that very few, if any, provide a real, concrete, how to solution! Now at this point of the juncture, you may be asking yourself why in Lords name would he take the time to read tens of hundreds of articles on this subject? The obvious answer would be that I was trying to get my ex back, but that’s ... [Read More]
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May 12th, 2009 01:04 PM |
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Millions of people in the U.S. seek help from counselors and therapists each year. However, did you know that only 50% of the people who enter therapy avoid divorce, and less than 20% report any improvement at all? Why is this strategy unsuccessful? Counseling is usually based on improving communication and problem solving skills, and in most cases this does absolutely nothing to address the root cause (low Self-Esteem) of a relationship crisis.... [Read More]
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