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August 5th, 2008 01:36 PM
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November 22nd, 2008 11:34 PM

sad Is your confidence level where you'd like it to be?

Many relationship issues arise from a lack of confidence or low self-esteem. Low self-confidence can contribute to withdrawal, lack of intimacy and even infidelity in a relationship.

So, how can you increase your confidence? Well, self-confidence is not a commodity that can be plucked from a tree or pulled from a shelf. You see, having merit for ones self is all about self-love and that comes from within. S... [Read More]

March 30th, 2008 09:34 AM
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July 19th, 2009 11:38 PM

When we are little we play with toys.
When we grow up we put our toys away and want the real thing.
Uchiyama Roshi
Most of life is playing with toys. It's fun, enchanting, passes the time and distracts us from one of our greatest fears - boredom, nothing doing - being no one. When nothing is happening and we're bored we feel empty and dull. When there aren't distractions and entertainment, some don't even know if they're really alive.

Many use their time and life s... [Read More]

October 29th, 2008 01:42 AM
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May 4th, 2009 03:15 PM

When rough times come, each of us has an intuition of the best way to handle the stress we feel. Rather than listen to all the catastrophic predictions, we stop and first turn within for wisdom and guidance. Implicitly we are asking, is there a way of seeing things differently? And, of course, there always is.

Rather than respond automatically, we are stopping for a moment and discovering a way of looking at the world through fresh eyes. As we do this, not only do we calm down, but often disc... [Read More]

September 10th, 2008 02:51 PM
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September 12th, 2008 02:21 AM

Quotes for Today:


  • "My soul preached to me and said, "Do not be delighted because of praise, and do not be distressed because of blame.’
  • ~Kahlil Gibran
  • Accept everything about yourself--I mean everything, You are you and that is the beginning and the end--no apologies, no regrets. ~Clark Moustakas
  • Be who you are and say what you feel
... [Read More]

September 8th, 2008 07:54 AM
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September 10th, 2008 01:07 PM

Today it seems more difficult than ever to build a lasting relationship and find the fulfillment all desire. In many circles, traditional relationships are a thing of the past and commitment is not automatically a part of anything. Along with this, we see increasing loneliness and divorce. For many, it has become hard to find a suitable partner and create a lasting foundation.

Although love and relationships are approached differently in Jewish and Zen practice, the teachings interact in many... [Read More]

September 3rd, 2008 10:35 AM
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November 12th, 2008 02:17 PM

Rehab-gold5 You wake up one day and your relationship is shattered. Most of the passion that existed between the two of you is gone, and your mate says “I’m not in love with you anymore," or "I don't feel the same way about you.” Maybe you’ve recently separated, are in the mists of a divorce, or are in a relationship crisis. Even though it seems that the crisis appears suddenly, in many cases it does not. A relationship crisis usually builds slowly over time with one person caught completel... [Read More]

July 11th, 2008 04:32 AM
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December 8th, 2009 09:03 PM

attractman1 Ok, so let me get this straight; you want to attract a man that is loving, caring, understanding, thoughtful, passionate, romantic, and who fulfills your wildest desires? And, you want to do it spontaneously?

You want your partner to possess all of these magnanimous qualities, but do you possess them??? Can you see where I’m going with this? To attract the man of your dreams you must become the very thing you want to attract, otherwise your efforts will result in a frui... [Read More]

June 3rd, 2008 09:22 AM
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October 9th, 2008 10:06 AM

We all seek ways of becoming balanced and at peace. Unfortunately, most of the time the ease we discover is temporary. As soon as a new situation, or unwanted encounter arises, we are often thrown back into our familiar mode of upset and concern.

Authentic peace of mind, however, is unshakable. No matter what changes appear in our world, we are able to welcome them. Authentic peace of mind is not based upon a series of ideas or beliefs, but is the very heart of who we truly are. When we... [Read More]

September 1st, 2007 03:02 AM
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September 27th, 2008 01:45 PM

Many individuals spend a great deal of time in relationships wondering if the person is the right one for them, whether they should stay or go. This question can become so persistent that it becomes hard enjoying being together, interferes with being able to relax and allow the bond to grow.

There are a number of different factors that cause individuals to doubt their relationships. Some say that although they love the person they do not know if they are loved back; others don't know if they'... [Read More]

April 1st, 2007 03:39 AM
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December 27th, 2009 11:37 AM

Most of us live our lives hungry - hungry for love, attention, praise, success. But no matter how much we take in, it’s hard to be satisfied. The pleasure lasts for a little while and then before long we’re craving more. It is easy to spend each day waiting for tomorrow when we will get what we dream of, arrive at our goal, find a new job, have good weather, or finally, magically, meet the love of our life. Then things will be better. Right?

Wrong. When tomorrow comes it’s another day, just lik... [Read More]

December 26th, 2009 05:26 PM
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December 26th, 2009 05:26 PM

Most women go through their entire lives never learning how to get what they truly want from a relationship. And, many end up losing their relationship simply because they didn't know what to do or say to save it. This is an absolute mistake! Why? Because if you don't gain the knowledge and the wisdom to create a magical relationship, what makes you think it's going to be different the next time around? Chances are it probably won't!

You see, the basis for a magical rela... [Read More]

November 24th, 2009 08:56 PM
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November 24th, 2009 08:56 PM

attractman1
How to instantaneously shift the momentum in your relationship crisis, stop the break up and reconnect with your partner using two secret principles!


So, has your partner blindsided you recently with one of these emotional nuclear bombs?

"I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore!"

"I’m having an affair, but I still love you, and I don’t want a divorce!"

... [Read More]

November 12th, 2009 09:58 PM
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November 12th, 2009 09:58 PM

Rehab-gold-2 Have you been trying to get your partner to make a commitment? Have you run into a brick wall over and over again? Whether your goal is marriage, a long term relationship, or winning your partner back after separation, there is a common thread at the core of this dilemma! And, your success is entirely dependent upon gaining a complete understanding of that denominator.

First, let me say, that a partner’s unwillingness to commit usually has absolutely nothing to do with ... [Read More]

November 1st, 2009 12:02 AM
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November 1st, 2009 12:02 AM

break-up Are you in the mists of a difficult and painful marriage crisis? Are you frustrated and heartbroken over your partner's rejection? Has your partner dropped this emotional nuclear bomb on you; "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore?" Or, worse; I’m having an affair? Have you asked your partner to attend counseling only to be rebuked? Are fraught with anxiety and completely panic stricken because you don’t know what to say or do to win your partner back? <... [Read More]

September 24th, 2009 02:02 PM
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September 24th, 2009 02:02 PM

attractman
Chances are if you’re reading this article, there’s a high probability that you’ve endured infidelity in a relationship. Maybe your current partner recently dropped the nuclear infidelity bomb on you, or maybe you’ve experienced several relationships rife with unfaithful behavior? Whether it’s the former or the later, the real questions are why does it happen and how can you fix it?


Now, I’m sure you’ve found a wealth of information on the web about cheating husb... [Read More]

August 21st, 2009 12:37 PM
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August 21st, 2009 12:37 PM

rehab-gold7 Did you know that there are 3 common and very misleading myths about how to save a relationship?
Did you know that these myths are the very principles used in over 90% of all relationship books and counseling programs? And finally, did you know that these myths often make matters much worse and even destroy most relationships!
  • To save your relationship you must improve communication and problem solving skills.

... [Read More]

June 19th, 2009 11:31 AM
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June 19th, 2009 11:31 AM

Rehab-Gold6 There are literally hundreds of articles circulating the web that claim to provide the illustrious pearl of wisdom that will get an ex back! But after critiquing the vast majority of them, I concluded that very few, if any, provide a real, concrete, how to solution! Now at this point of the juncture, you may be asking yourself why in Lords name would he take the time to read tens of hundreds of articles on this subject? The obvious answer would be that I was trying to get my ex back, but that’s ... [Read More]

May 12th, 2009 02:04 PM
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May 12th, 2009 02:04 PM

secret-principles Millions of people in the U.S. seek help from counselors and therapists each year. However, did you know that only 50% of the people who enter therapy avoid divorce, and less than 20% report any improvement at all? Why is this strategy unsuccessful? Counseling is usually based on improving communication and problem solving skills, and in most cases this does absolutely nothing to address the root cause (low Self-Esteem) of a relationship crisis.... [Read More]

January 29th, 2009 08:18 AM
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January 29th, 2009 08:18 AM

"The whole world is medicine, what is the illness?"
Leaning Monk


When some people suffer they take medication, others seek therapy, many read books or talk to friends. A few, however, become students of Zen. Although much has been made of the connections between Zen and psychology, to really understand Zen healing, it is also necessary to be understand the difference between healing from the Zen and psychological point of view.

From the psychological point of view, emo... [Read More]

January 29th, 2009 08:13 AM
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January 29th, 2009 08:13 AM

It's one thing to say, I love you to someone. It's another thing to truly live it. So many of us confuse feelings of warmth, attraction, need, excitement for the precious experience of love. Particularly at this season, the need for true connection and caring become intensified. This is a perfect time to look more deeply at what it means to truly love, to truly uplift and enhance the life of those in your life.

All of us come to relationships filled to the brim with memories, fears, ideas, be... [Read More]

January 21st, 2009 02:04 PM
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January 21st, 2009 02:04 PM

secret-principles How to unleash your true feminine power and launch your relationship to unimaginable heights!

“Sooner or later, those who win are those who think they can.” said Richard Bach, philosopher and renowned author of Jonathan Livingston Seagull. This classic novel is a story of transformation, which portrays a spirited bird that by trial and error learns to fly for grace and speed, not merely for food and survival. When he returns to his flock with the me... [Read More]

January 2nd, 2009 01:32 PM
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January 2nd, 2009 01:32 PM

sad How to get him back, end the Infidelity, and Create the Magical Marriage you’ve always wanted!

You wake up one day and your marriage is shattered because your husband just dropped the nuclear, infidelity bomb on you! Turns out he’s been having an affair for months. You knew that your relationship wasn’t exactly a magical one, but you never expected him to cheat on you! And, what complicates the painful emotional crisis even further is the fact that he won’t stop his beha... [Read More]

December 16th, 2008 09:12 PM
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December 16th, 2008 09:12 PM

secrets-ult-rel Mirror mirror on the wall, help me save my relationship most of all!


What if …..There really was a magical relationship mirror that had the power to save and even transform your relationship? I would venture to say an heirloom of that magnitude would be quite a coveted and priceless treasure! Well, I hate to rain on your parade because there isn’t a mirror that will answer your questions or grant your deepest heartfelt desires. But, maybe! Just maybe, there’s somethin... [Read More]

December 2nd, 2008 10:36 AM
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December 2nd, 2008 10:36 AM

Loneliness is one of the great problems of our times. Despite being constantly on- line, tuned into virtual reality, the heart needs human contact and warmth. We all have a deep hunger to belong to community or family. Yet, before we can truly feel real connection to others, it is extremely valuable to understand the difference between loneliness and being alone.

When we come together out of fear of being alone, this togetherness is not really satisfying, but often a way to hide from the disc... [Read More]

October 31st, 2008 01:08 AM
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October 31st, 2008 01:08 AM

sad So, you’re motoring along on the autopilot of love, and you’re completely oblivious to the looming bombshell that’s about to be dropped!

Life is good or so it seemed, until you wake one day to discover that your relationship has been nuked! Like most, you were completely blindsided by the shock and emotional paralysis of having your partner say the following: “I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore!” Most women would agree that this is not only a devastating s... [Read More]


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