What is RQ (Relationship Quotient)? - Page 2

the_patient · #11 (**permalink**) June 11th, 2007, 12:54 PM

Same question as above.

topsynergy · #12 (**permalink**) June 14th, 2007, 03:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Floral

I have a question. Could the initial passion sensed between two people (as shown by the report) increase or decrease after getting to know the other person?

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Originally Posted by the_patient

Same question as above.

I hope that your questions have been answered in this post. Please let me know if not.

alex1 · #13 (**permalink**) June 14th, 2007, 04:26 AM

^ I was curious about that too, but the text says that "The intensity of passion one feels toward another tends to levels off during the course of most prolonged relationships." and I was wondering what if I meet someone and at first sight I feel attracted towards that person but after a few weeks I don't feel that attracted to that person as I realise I don't like that person's personality and the way he/she acts and expresses himself. Could my attraction towards that person turn into something contrary to what I felt at first? And what if I know someone for a long time and the first time I saw that person I felt attracted to him/her and after years I began to feel even more attracted to that person? How can these situations be explained?

Neth · #14 (**permalink**) July 6th, 2007, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by topsynergy

When all three components are present in a relationship, its Love RQ equals 100, i.e. each component contributes one third of 100. To make matters a little bit more complex, we penalize the RQ score if only one side to the relationship contributes to the mutual quality, and we reword the RQ if the strength of a mutual quality is higher than 1 (one).

Love RQ of 87 for the relationship between Princess Diana and Prince Charles is calculated as follows:
1. Add 33.33 (1/3) for mutual commitment.
2. Add nothing for mutual intimacy.
3. Add 33.33 (1/3) for mutual passion.
4. Add 20 points for mutual passion = 3 (10 points for each increment).
Total = 33.33 + 33.33 + 20 = 87.

No penalty was given because both mutual commitment and mutual passion are contributed by Prince Charles and Princess Diana alike.

How do you calculate the penalty? How much are you going to subtract for each reduction? Is't 10 like it's if the mutual quality is higher than 1? I will use 10 in the followng exampel: If A has a value of 0 and B a value of 4 and the mutual value is 2, are you then going to subtract 40 (4-0=4x10) or 20 (4-2=2x10)? Could someone please explain this to me.

topsynergy · #15 (**permalink**) July 12th, 2007, 06:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Neth

How do you calculate the penalty? How much are you going to subtract for each reduction? Is't 10 like it's if the mutual quality is higher than 1? I will use 10 in the followng exampel: If A has a value of 0 and B a value of 4 and the mutual value is 2, are you then going to subtract 40 (4-0=4x10) or 20 (4-2=2x10)? Could someone please explain this to me.

Welcome aboard, Neth. In the example which you quoted we are using only the mutual value in the equation. I guess that your question about A & B is directed more toward how the mutual value has been calculated.

Please look at the bottom few Q&As in the About Commitment post and let me know if further information is required.

topsynergy · #16 (**permalink**) July 12th, 2007, 07:17 AM

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Originally Posted by alex1

^ I was curious about that too, but the text says that "The intensity of passion one feels toward another tends to levels off during the course of most prolonged relationships." and I was wondering what if I meet someone and at first sight I feel attracted towards that person but after a few weeks I don't feel that attracted to that person as I realise I don't like that person's personality and the way he/she acts and expresses himself. Could my attraction towards that person turn into something contrary to what I felt at first? And what if I know someone for a long time and the first time I saw that person I felt attracted to him/her and after years I began to feel even more attracted to that person? How can these situations be explained?

Thank you very much for keeping us alert and on our toes at all times

I agree that what I wrote years ago about passion is too one-dimensional. Please read the revised post about passion and let me know how you feel about it.

lovelykate · #17 (**permalink**) March 30th, 2009, 11:17 PM

Therefore anything under the average means your relationship is not compatible?
For example my boyfriend and I have a 47 Love RQ, a 40 Friendship RQ, a 80 Sex RQ, and a 0 Partners RQ...does that mean we wont last? help!

topsynergy · #18 (**permalink**) April 4th, 2009, 01:31 AM

God forbid NO!!! It doesn't mean that you won't last!!! What it means is that future challenges might arise in one or more areas of commitment/intimacy/passion - depends on the results in your report.

The report helps to solidify reality, understand strengths and possible challenges, and most importantly, it helps to NOT take those challenges "personally", but to rather strive to overcome them with mutual sympathy and understanding.

The report is a tool to better your relationships through understanding and awareness; not to disqualify them.

Hope it helps

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Originally Posted by lovelykate

Therefore anything under the average means your relationship is not compatible? For example my boyfriend and I have a 47 Love RQ, a 40 Friendship RQ, a 80 Sex RQ, and a 0 Partners RQ...does that mean we wont last? help!

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