hello to all members
26 years of marriage, may i share this with you? if, a spark brought the two of you together. then, you can make it work. here is how. work the relationship. what you put into it, you will get back ten times. if it is negative, then negative you will get back. if, it is positive, then positive you will get back. the spark is still there, find it.
this is something i tell my children with their problems in relationships. why are watching tv? why is your room a mess? how can you go on a trip? why do you go visit other people? you see, they are doing things to avoid the situation or they can't sit and communicate. turn off the tv, turn off the radio and do not read anything. find that spark.
i should know, born with autism, drowned age six and never got any help for it. i didn't start to talk until i was 30 and when i did our relationship bloomed. when a husband learnes to talk as much as a wife about her and nice things. that relationship will always work.
after 50 years of marriage, this old timer said. rusty to make a marriage work. the man has to be the strong one and he has to give, even when he doesn't want to, but, it is the right thing to do. however, once in a while, he has to hold his ground and she has to understand, she needs to give. in the end, the wife should always be the one to
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