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| View Poll Results: Are you for or against marriage? | |||
| Yes, I'm for it; it's a sign of couple's commitment and love, made in front of their community |
   
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25 | 36.76% |
| No need really, I can commit just as deeply to my loved one without getting married |
  
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18 | 26.47% |
Maybe... it's not an absolute "must" to me, but would be nice 
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17 | 25.00% |
| I have no great passions about it either way, but I'll do it for the sake of kids or legal reasons |
  
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5 | 7.35% |
| Not for me, thanks, I want to be free. |
  
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3 | 4.41% |
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June 15th, 2008, 08:47 AM
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Re: Marriage, for or against?
When I divorced and had to live alone for some years, it was a good time for me, not easy though. I spent nights awake feeling quilty, shame, sadness. It took too many years to start to rebuild me.
In my question to you I just tried to ask why there are so many people who always, without realizing, find a relationship where is same characteristics than in previous one. It´s easy to jump into a "same" feelings which may not be only good feelings, but familiar anyway. Knowing you can lead this "game" like you´ve done earlier. Well, anyway. Thank you, this was a nice conversation 
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June 15th, 2008, 09:18 AM
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Same me same them
Most of our relationships and people whom we invite into our life are there as our guidance for further development.
One of their functions as tourist guides is to mirror and highlight pitfalls in our inner mechanism. Thus, as long as we haven't used this guidance to performed a deep and durable change within ourselves, the same guidance (and guides) will show up over and over again, won't they? Quote:
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June 15th, 2008, 01:54 PM
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Re: Marriage, for or against?
[i]Hmm.... there´s also a difference in how men and women think, or just me: simple is just enough for me
 I don´t care much for power or productive  Maybe it´s again our culture difference? I like things to be quite simple... Easy way of living suits me more than perfect. Hmm... that only tells me that I´m a simple person! Hah! Very simple indeed
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August 18th, 2008, 12:24 PM
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Re: Marriage, for or against?
I am against getting married because personally I will not become a maid, cook, psycotherapist, blow up doll and his doctor for 10 years then have him cheat on me and then go through a divorce. Most people do not know what a marriage is. It is not let's put our bank accounts together, help clean the house, let's fight, let's just have sex all day long. It's about caring for eachother becaue you two love eachother. I do not want to get married because I do not trust anyone and I do not want to get a divorce.
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