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risenshine321 · #1 (**permalink**) July 21st, 2008, 10:01 AM

I did a report with someone I like now. We aren't even dating yet. It came out so negative all zero's except for a 50 sex- no mutual areas of compatibility - nothing! I have done reports with previous relationships that didn't work out that came out very high compatibility on these reports. What does this mean?
I'm sorry but either it's hooey and I should just see what actually transpires between us- or trust a report like this that shows absolutely zero chance of a compatible relationship???????????

topsynergy · #2 (**permalink**) July 21st, 2008, 10:16 AM

Welcome aboard, risenshine321.

Please post a link to your report for a more educated answer. The picture may even be more complete if we'd be able to look at some of your reports with ex-dates as well.

If you are hesitant about showing the reports, please detail here the exact findings for each quality (commitment, intimacy, etc.).

risenshine321 · #3 (**permalink**) July 21st, 2008, 10:36 AM

Thanks for responding Shlomo- here is the link
Relationships Analyst Report by Top Synergy

I don't have the link for the other one's right now- but, for instance, my ex husband and I came out very compatible for long term marriage etc- and that was a disaster mostly and other lovers came out much higher then this one also- but in reality- this relationship seems like it could be good and down to earth- why no compatibility according to the report?

Risa

topsynergy · #4 (**permalink**) July 21st, 2008, 11:48 AM

Dear Risa, I was truly hoping to find the necessary qualities in your report that can point out a sustainable happy long-term relationship with Andy, even if they are in disarray. Unfortunately, I couldn't find them in this report

I can think of two possible explanations to the discrepancy between how you feel about this relationship and the astrological interpretation of your aspects at time of birth:

1. You didn't enter Andy's exact time of birth;

2. Either your commitment towards Andy, his openness toward you, or your attraction to him are unique and were not found in other relationships before.

Other than that, I just thank God for giving us the power to mold our relationships as we chose, and isn't it the most important ingredient of all?

If you are not about to get married soon, it will be interesting to approach the compatibility issue from other angles and by different tools as they will be made available in our community within the next few months.

Please keep us posted, and enjoy happiness and fulfillment in each and every choice that you make.

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Originally Posted by risenshine321

Thanks for responding Shlomo- here is the link
Relationships Analyst Report by Top Synergy

I don't have the link for the other one's right now- but, for instance, my ex husband and I came out very compatible for long term marriage etc- and that was a disaster mostly and other lovers came out much higher then this one also- but in reality- this relationship seems like it could be good and down to earth- why no compatibility according to the report?

Risa

risenshine321 · #5 (**permalink**) July 21st, 2008, 12:52 PM

Thank you.

risenshine321 · #6 (**permalink**) July 21st, 2008, 01:06 PM

I think I know what the problem is-- your computer probably has my birthday 3/21/58 programmed in as Aries - I think most Western astrology does- but the Kabbalah center has the book with the true astrological patterns- and 3/21/58 was actually Pisces- which would change the chart and the compatibility.
Risa

Monika0711 · #7 (**permalink**) July 24th, 2008, 06:25 PM

Hi, Risenshine!
Totally get your frustration! -- looking at the charts of my first husband's and mine, there were very few (if any) astrological combinations. However, oh, boy -- I JUST LOVED HIM SOOOO.... and he was one of the most important relationships in my life. The ONLY chart point that connected us was his Sun in a very close proximity to my North Node (of the Moon), which means that although we had little in common with each other, he was meant to be important in my life (for Karmic reasons).

And sometimes the timing is crucial. Let's say, you and your first husband (who you say are very compatible astrologically) did not make it despite the compatibility. It may simply be, that either one of you could not make it in a relationship at that time, because of your own chart timing. Maybe there was a planetary circumstance that prevented you two from maintaining the relationship? (That's my guess).

Let us know how it goes with your current relationship -- just notice that this world (and this site) is filled with couples who score low points on their compatibility, and yet, they seem to be doing well... ???

alex1 · #8 (**permalink**) July 25th, 2008, 02:04 AM

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Let us know how it goes with your current relationship -- just notice that this world (and this site) is filled with couples who score low points on their compatibility, and yet, they seem to be doing well... ???

That's a generalization. Truth is compatibility is reduced in the end to real life interaction. There are so many variables to consider that one cannot estimate in a very accurate way the way two people may interact with each other. That doesn't mean that the report on this site isn't good. It just means that this is a small part of what compatibility means and there are many others to be considered that maybe the human mind hasn't come up with a method of measuring them. In the end, I think "compatible" is what makes you happy, on the long run.

Monika0711 · #9 (**permalink**) July 25th, 2008, 11:08 AM

Goodness forbid, I do not imply the reports on the site are not good -- but what I'm saying with absolute conviction is that many times people pair up to work out some karmic reasons, and many, many times couples choose to stay with each other DESPITE the lack of great compatibility. In my opinion (and I may be wrong here) and in my experience (that I'm sure of)-- only a small percentage of married couples are compatible in the astrological sense. Most of them are compatible in the karmic sense -- to work out hard, challenging issues in their lives. God bless all of us.

alex1 · #10 (**permalink**) July 25th, 2008, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Monika0711

In my opinion (and I may be wrong here)

You may...

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and in my experience (that I'm sure of)--

But can't be generalized....

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only a small percentage of married couples are compatible in the astrological sense.

It might be, who knows?

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Most of them are compatible in the karmic sense -- to work out hard, challenging issues in their lives.

You must know better, from your experience...

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