Can someone please clarify?

StephieP · #1 (**permalink**) September 21st, 2008, 12:12 AM

Relationships Analyst Report by Top Synergy
I am not sure what to make of this report. I think that is because it confuses me. How can you have an on dot for numerours (2 out of 3 or 3 out of 3) categories, but not have a synergy? Also, is it safe to assume this report is telling me that this person and I are not meant to have a romantic relationship but we will only be friends at best? Any and all feedback is appreciated. Thanks!

topsynergy · #2 (**permalink**) September 21st, 2008, 03:42 AM

Dear StephieP,

Your commitment is not only the first item in the table of qualities, but also something that I would regard with respect and appreciation. This is the corner stone for any long-term relationship, be it a friendship, close-unit business partnership or marriage.

There is another good news: how communicative (in the deeper levels that is) your relationship will become depends mostly on you

Your partner seems to have the basic ingredients that are needed for a person to feel loved, accepted, and secured enough to open up and share fears, failures, and mistakes when arise, and to listen. How about you?

I won't go much into the passion department because it seems to be the weakling in the Relationships Analyst report. Is it because passion mostly demonstrates itself during the first phase of a relationship or because there are so many parameters other than astrological compatibility that can influence the passion we feel toward others or its lack of? I cannot give you an accurate assessment yet.

And finally, I didn't understand your question regarding your synergy, but I'm sure that you'll find another way of relating your question below.

This is a good relationship. Not because it is perfect but rather because you are fortunate to have the option to better the relationship through practicing acceptance of yourself as a beautiful, wholesome, and perfect in its imperfections child of God.

The_Tigress · #3 (**permalink**) September 21st, 2008, 04:21 AM

It seems like it is a strong relationship. I got a far lower one with my fiance and I know that he and I are soulmates. We have our faults, but with communication, understanding and love, we get past them.
I think anything above 50 on the top four RQ's should be looked at as good or work in progress. You have positives too, any number above the average (-), I feel is a plus

So if your serous about the relationship, I think that it could be worth it!

StephieP · #4 (**permalink**) September 21st, 2008, 07:52 PM

Thanks for the feedback. It really gives me hope considering that the two of us are having some issues right now

My question about synergy was basically how is synergy determined? I have done a few of these reports and using this one as an example, I see that there are a few categories where it is determined that both have a green dot under the 'mutual' category, yet there is no dot or a blue dot under 'synergy'. I was under the impression that synergy meant that there was mutual positive energy. Am I wrong here?

topsynergy · #5 (**permalink**) September 21st, 2008, 11:42 PM

I can go on about the fascinating subject of synergy for ages, but luckily we have done so already

Please read the Synergy FAQ and let me know if you still have some unanswered questions left.

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Originally Posted by StephieP

Thanks for the feedback. It really gives me hope considering that the two of us are having some issues right now

My question about synergy was basically how is synergy determined? I have done a few of these reports and using this one as an example, I see that there are a few categories where it is determined that both have a green dot under the 'mutual' category, yet there is no dot or a blue dot under 'synergy'. I was under the impression that synergy meant that there was mutual positive energy. Am I wrong here?

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