Do you share your innermost secrets with everyone around or are you as tight as a clam with your feelings? Take the short intimacy assessment and find out the level of intimacy you are comfortable with. Are you willing to become vulnerable by opening up to others, or would you rather maintain control at all times. Is intimacy in your relationships important, or you can make do without.

Before taking the assessment, settle yourself and get comfortable. Try to avoid any distractions while responding to the statements. When selecting your responses it is important to think of how you usually are, not just how you are at this moment. It is also very important to be honest with yourself.

Finally, remember this is not a test, but an assessment that helps you discover or confirm your attitudes towards intimacy. There are no right or wrong, good or bad answers.

To begin your assessment click here. To watch the results, click the Intimacy Level link in the "My Tools" menu. Sorry for the flimsiness of the questionnaire page; it will get better with time.

The Intimacy Assessment is the first in line of personality assessment tools. It is important to voice your comments now, so we'll be able to implement necessary changes as soon as possible.

You may also like to read or participate in our About Intimacy discussion.

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Shlomo Tommer
Top Synergy Admin

I don't know what I've done wrong but I don't think my assessment fits me. I am not that intimate and not with people I don't have a relationship with.

Can you review your answers to the questions again tomorrow and see what you come up with? Please let me know the outcome.

Since I already know you a bit, I will check for bugs if your assessment will come up the same as today.

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Shlomo Tommer
Top Synergy Admin

OK, I reviewed my answers and I think it's ok now. It was a few points difference but it made a big difference for my assessment. This is what I got:

Your answers indicate that you fall in the middle of the intimacy scale. Like most of us, you do share your thoughts and feelings with a group of friends and/or someone you are intimately involved with. You are also likely to be open to hearing the private thoughts and feelings of others without being too critical of them. You are aware there are people out there who will abuse your trust in them, so you are definitely not one to normally spill your soul to just anyone. You may share your secrets and desires, but only with those who time and experience have proven trustworthy. Of course you probably have levels of intimacy as well. While there may be one or two who know your entire story, there are others that get pieces of the picture. Overall, being in the middle of the intimacy scale is sign that you have a very healthy attitude toward sharing your inner-self. You do not set yourself up to be abused by telling all to anyone who will listen. Nor do you close yourself off from intimacy so tightly that you have chronic feelings of alienation and loneliness. You seem to have reached a happy median in which your need to share your feelings is fulfilled without running too high a risk of rejection or misuse.

Dear Alex1, how shell I put it?... I messed up my calculations big time

How does it look now, that the bug is fixed?

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Shlomo Tommer
Top Synergy Admin

I did it again and the result is the same as above but the score is more realistic.

Where can I read my Self-Esteem Assessment?

If you refer to the interpretation text as "the result", it stays the same because we set up only three texts: minimal intimacy (0 - 25%), maximal (76 - 100%), and the in-between group.

I hope to complete the self-esteem assessment today. You can go ahead and answer its 58 questions on your My Information page.

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Shlomo Tommer
Top Synergy Admin

My result is average for the Self-Esteem Assessment too.

Do you feel agreeable with your SE assessment?

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Shlomo Tommer
Top Synergy Admin

I think so, yes.